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Why should I clear my own table?

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It was a weird weekend where we went to home furnishings store just to have our dinner: yup…meat balls! We sat at one very clean table in a modern-minimalist-designed restaurant. I struck at a rhetoric question displayed on acrylic triangle on the table. Why should I clear my own table?

Yes, why should I?” , you may think; if I am in this country that cheap services are common; from petrol station attendant, groceries helper or foodcourt I-clean-your-mess helpers.

So I cleared my own table and then sat for quite a while…observing restaurant patrons if this question really works

…and (I was surprised) it did.

People follow what ‘suggested’ by the question. Are they doing it because others doing it? because it hits their bottom line (you should clear your table so that we can maintain our price low) or it is a polite thing to do? You won’t never see this in mall’s food courts nor in fast food restaurants.

Wonder if this sign is put in those places…..

Do you clear your own table?

People discuss in the net about this question: http://www.yelp.com/topic/chandler-should-i-clean-up-my-table-at-fast-food-places

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The Sign

One of the many du’a (prayers) I had made in Masjid Al Haram during my umrah last Feb is to have a good and succesful career at work.

Few days later, while I was in Quuba Mosque in The Prophet City of Madinah, a headhunter rang me. Not a good time. However, I gave a hint to talk briefly. She then talked about an exciting opportunity with a supermajor. I didn’t discuss much further and in detail about it owing to the situation at that time.

Will this be the sign? I don’t know.

During the last few months I have been a witness to departures of close friends to move to another companies: two went to UAE, one to Oman, one to Aberdeen, one to Saudi, one to Australia, and two to Indonesia. While it is normal thing to expect from a life of an expat, but still it left me with a question: what if I were they.

I am repeatedly comforting myself and I am afraid that I am creating a too-much comfort zone inside and around my life. Sigh.

Imaginary inner voice:  “Just go back focused to work Wahyu and get another Outstanding appraisal like last year!” :)


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A How much? Encounter

If you are newcomer in Qatar, you may be shocked to get a straightforward question from a stranger: “How much is your salary?”

What?

Been living in Doha for almost 5 years now, I should have been familiar. But still, I am shocked.

#1. I was in a tire shop; changing old tires. Engaging a conversation with the service desk personnel; from cars, tires, nationality, where i work until we finally came to an awkward and shocking situation (at least for me) when he asked how much salary did I get? Very straightforward.

My mom doesn’t even know.

#2. I was giving a ride to a worker from Ras Laffan Industrial City. As usual we’re engaged in a conversation. Until a time, “My salary is QRXXXX a month. How much is your salary sir?” Fortunately I could still control my car :)

Even I don’t want my boys know how much his father earns.

#3. I had a quick shopping in one of the Indonesian stores in Doha. A stranger caught me in a mere two minutes conversation. Again at the end, “How much? Ten thousand? Thirty thousand? or more?”

I am sorry. Not your business.

#4. A car accessory shop mechanic was installing roof mount DVD player in my car. I supervised him and unfortunately this got me into the same conversation ending. “Kam? (Arab: How much) Too much? (He tried to speak in a broken English)

My friend, don’t bother with what other grass looks like. Just focus to your job and you’ll get what you dream of.

Oh Doha.


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4 years and going

Tomorrow, 24 Nov, marks completion of my 4th year in service with Qatargas. Time flies so fast huh.

I still remember the day when I stepped out of Qatar Airways plane that took me from Jakarta to Doha. It was the onset of Ramadhan 2008 (September), temperature was 39 C and I was able to maintain my fasting amid long flight trip. The interview went well with two good people who already left the company now. I owe them for their decision to have me onboard.

Then a new beginning started when I embarked a new endeavor as an expatriat in Qatar. That was on 24 Nov 2008. Then a complete new beginning started when my family joined me on 28 Feb 2009. Fast forward, throughout this flying-fast four years I have been nothing but having excellent work experiences and working with extraordinary people.

Despite many seductions of leaving Qatargas and Qatar, I am still here today, looking forward to more exciting work and life experience years to come.

4 years and going….


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Honeymoon at Kampung Sampireun

::. This is again a post from our recent mudik trip to Indonesia during summer

We hadn’t have our honeymoon yet until even our 12th anniversary. Many plans just gone; not materialized. So  when we have a chance to make this happen we try hard.

Kampung Sampireun (http://www.kampungsampireun.com), our selected place, is located about 2-hour drive from Bandung capital of West Java, 15 km from the city of Garut, on the road to Kamojang Crater, where a geothermal plant is located at. A drive to Sampireun is a mixed experience in itself: passing through typical crowded towns, winding roads, and mountain backdrop.

Mount Guntur

How I miss this greenery

Built in 1999, this resort features back to nature concept with Sundanese culture as a center soul: the lake, the bungalows, the art performance, the meals, the staffs.

Taken from Sundanese Language which means “a place/village to stop by”, Kampung Sampireun’s center of attraction is the lake and the bungalows floating and around it. Once we checked in the reception, we were given a traditional drink “Bajigur” (a hot and sweet beverage native to Sunda, made up of coconut milk, palm sugar, and ginger). Then dressed in Sundanese traditional outfits, hotel staff takes us to our bungalow with using canoe! If you come in large group you may be escorted with using bamboo raft.

Check-in in class with bamboo raft :)

It’s a bit of nervous checking-in our room with this type of transportation mode. However, the beautiful scenery of lake, original bamboo forest, and schools of ‘greedy’ gold fish soon dampens our worry.

Kampung Sampireun

The lake, bamboo forest, bungalow and floating restaurant

Pine tree, canoe, lake and traditional bungalow

From the balcony

Our bungalow is constructed using bamboo with coconut roofing. A balcony opens directly to the lake where you can feed those greedy fishes. Once settled you’ll be given one or two bags of fish pellets for feeding. Meanwhile, each bungalow is assigned with its own canoe. You may use it for canoeing, or to access lobby and different areas of resort. A beautifully landscaped walking path is available at the back of bungalow that links all bungalows to resort facilities such as restaurants, playground, swimming pool, spa, mosque, and lobby.

Enjoy at balcony overlooking gold fish filled lake

Learn how to canoe

Feeding gold fishes from balcony

These greedy gold fishes got used to people feeding them

Kampung Sampireun at night

 

Kampung Sampireun at night

 

A beautifully landscaped walking path at the back of bungalows

Art performances and snack breaks can be enjoyed at regular intervals. In the afternoon we can enjoy the Sundanese music performance “calung and angklung” (bamboo tube xylophone). While dinner, “kecapi suling” (a zither-like Sundanese music instrument is played at the restaurant.

“Calung” performance in the afternoon

After dinner, around 9 – 9.30pm, a traditional drink called ” Sekoteng ” warming up our body from cold mountain air. The drink is again dropped to our bungalow by boat.

Hotel staffs deliver pre-breakfast traditional floating pancake

Surabi – Sundanese floating pancake

Lastly, in the morning around 6am before breakfast, traditional snack  Floating Surabi (Traditional pancake) is delivered to our balcony.

Spending our honeymoon at Kampung Sampireun is indeed a memorable experience. A peaceful, exotic, romantic, tranquil environment is perfect for honeymooners. As part of our package (we ordered a honeymoon package from http://www.weddingku.com) we’re treated with the floating candle light dinner (on raft), the couple spa treatment, a specifically decorated room, a photo session, breakfast and lunch and a photo session.

Candle light dinner at floating restaurant

The hotel is also offering a trange of activities such as fishing, a tour to nearby village, a tour to tourist areas such as Papandayan Mountain, Waterfall, Traditional Snack and Leather Factory, or to hot spring water as we did.

Sabda Alam Hot Spring Water Park at Cipanas, Garut at the foot of Mount Guntur

As we leave Kampung Sampireun we get nothing than stronger bond among us; exceptional experience of city-escape break, and thirst quencher to Indonesia’s invaluable asset: nature, people, and culture.


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Mudik

If you don’t hear any post from us recently that’s because we are on “Mudik” (moo-deeq). It is a special trip during special occassions (mostly during Eid al-Fitr) to one’s home town.

As we are now busy with mudik to East Java and mudik-associated activities, few blogs may only be expected.

We will update you with various stories from our mudik :)

Meanwhile Eid Mubarak! Please accept our apology for any mistakes we made.


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Welcome to bachelor life

Summer holiday started. Quite earlier for some. For us it just started today when my family departed Doha to Bandung, Indonesia. Inevitably, they left me behind due to my work schedule and leave planning. I am officially now bachelor, local bachelor only.

What’s life as a bachelor? Not too bad.

- Feel awkward without such noise, without kids around but definitely miss them

- Doing everything myself – house cleaning, laundry, cooking and so on….

- Start realizing how family-oriented life in this city is not favorable for bachelor. Family Day!

- Some degree of freedom – no complain on home late, no NOC required, much me time

- Time to self-discovery – with much me time probably it’s the best time to self-discover myself

- Time to try something new – new recipes, new websites

- Time to accelerate work progress – now I can take my work home and work uninterruptedly

- Time to build love among us – distance separates us but it only makes us closer

- Time to build stronger relationship with friends (those having the same local bachelor status :) )

- As Ramadan about to start, it’ll give me much more time to get closer to Him

See it’s not that bad. Now let me start counting down the days until I meet them. 32 days more :(


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Age doesn’t lie

I can’t manipulate my age or my age is not befriending me, in this middle to late thirties of age. As I get older I get weaker, get less stamina and can’t withstand a long sport activity.

Two weeks ago, I joined a football team in a one day fun football tournament organized by Indonesian community in Al Khor. The event, participated by 10 teams from every town in Qatar, was held from 7.30 in the morning until 7 pm in the evening. Hot weather is one thing, but for sure, though the match was only 2×10 minutes I couldn’t play for one single match straight…..sighhh. The first match, I was out due to foot ankle problem, after wrong tackling. In another match, I was out due to short of breathing. And in the last match, I pulled out due to hamstring…duhh.

So I probably need to realize my limit, to understand the consequence of non-regular exercise, and should have thought age matters.

Ouch! This tackling costed me an ankle problem :(

 

I am in action to guard our opponent

 

Football with sunglasses!

 

Protect the asset!

 

My team – crazy sand duners football team

 

 

All players with our Indonesian Ambassador for Qatar. If you can spot me…:)

 

 All pictures are credited to Mustafa Kamalullah.


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Back to Reality!

Yeah….and time flies so fast and I’m already coming back to Doha after a more-than-2-week-long vacation in my home country, Indonesia. Welcome back to Doha, welcome back to reality. As my friend put it in his Facebook status – back to dishwasher job soon :)

Indeed, vacation is not a reality. This is when you don’t bother withwork loads, don’t bother with waking up late, when you’re having some loose spending, rewarding yourself with visiting new places, meeting old friends, tracking back memories, calibrating culinary taste sensor.

But Doha is our second home and we feel it by the time we landed in Doha International Airport. It’s the start of January 2012 and our fourth year (can’t imagine) in Doha…with new challenges and interesting work and life ahead.


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Eid Alone 3

Since I married, this is the third Eid Fitr that I must enjoy it alone. Let’s rewind a bit.

2003 – I was in Singapore for pursuing my master degree while my family were in Bandung, Indonesia. I remembered even that on the third day of Eid I sat for an exam. Fortunately, Eid is recognized holiday in Singapore

2008 – I was in Houston for presenting a paper in a conference while my family were in Balikpapan, Indonesia. The conference ran 4 days with 1 day before Eid and 3 days after Eid. No holiday during Eid in US, so the show must go on.

2010 – Now. I am in Doha and my family in Bandung, Indonesia. The reason: leave arrangement and company’s operations requirements.

This year, there will be 3 working-day holiday plus 2 weekend summed up into 5 continuous long weekend. My plan is to perform Eid prayer in Fanar (as Indonesian Embassy does not arrange Eid prayer due to renovation), to attend Qatargas Eid gathering in the evening at Sheraton, and to attend Indonesian’s gathering here at my compound club house. The rest is tentatively for visiting friends, or rest itself :) .

Eid Prayer in Fanar

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